Showing posts with label therapy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label therapy. Show all posts

Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor E. Frankl (2008, 2013)

, 27 Dec 2022

This 2008 digital edition of Frankl's 1945 book is a must read for every human being who wants to lift their spirit in moments of despair.
 
The book is structured in three different parts. The first one (Experiences in a Concentration Camp) and the Postscript (The case for a Tragic Optimism) fit beautifully together, and are the basis of Frankl's philosophy and psychotherapy system called Logotherapy. They are narrated in a very conversational way because they are, after all, a memoir. They differ greatly in style and tone from the second part (Logotherapy in a Nutshell), which is a summary of Frankl's therapy system, partially based on Frankl's experiences and observations as Auschwitz inmate, and partially on techniques and views of the world that he had started elaborating before he was sent to the concentration camp. This part is drier in style, way more technical and not as approachable for the reader, unless the reader is really into therapy or a therapist. 
 
Harold Kushner's preface to this 2008 edition is a good summary of the book main points, while Frankl's preface to the 1992 edition summarizes well how the book and Logotherapy came to be. 
 
The book has many pearls of wisdom, and is very uplifting despite the brutality of what we read. In all honesty, I already expected that when I picked up the book. Some prisoner's stories are utterly poetic despite their tragedy. I'm glad that those people's historical memoirs had been so beautifully preserved. On the other hand, this is a survivor's first-person narration of the events, so that allows for invaluable insights into the reality of the extermination camps and into the inmates' mental/emotional state and fortune.

Since we live in 2021 and we're pretty aware of the Nazis' atrocities against the Jews, most of the things that Frankl tells about his experience are somewhat lessened by the impact on the reader of dozens of documentaries and movies on WW2. It might have been chilling reading the book in the postwar era, when all the atrocities were still unfolding and the world  came to realize what had really happened.  What we didn't know before reading the book is that a new therapeutic model, Logotherapy, was greatly influenced by the Jew's suffering in Auschwitz, and that there is hope even in the biggest moments of despair. 
 
For the rest, Frank's take on life is admirable and full of wisdom, whether you are into Logotherapy or not. I especially liked his comments on love, the youth and unemployment, as they are still, more than half a century later, valid. 

LOGOTHERAPY, SOME CORE PRINCIPLES AND POINTS I LIKE
> The great task for any person is to find meaning in his/her life. Frankl saw three possible sources for meaning: Work (doing something significant), Love (caring for another person), and Courage in difficult times.
> Suffering is meaningless; we give our suffering meaning by the way in which we respond to it.
> You cannot control what happens to you in life, but you can always control what you will feel and do about what happens to you.
> Logotherapy aims to curing the soul by leading it to find meaning in life.
> What matters is to make the best of any given situation.
Man’s main concern is not to gain pleasure or to avoid pain but rather to see a meaning in his life.
> The aim of life is not to be happy as the seeking of happiness can increase someone's unhappiness.
> Suffering is unavoidable, is part of life, and we need to accept it and re-frame it.
> Tragic optimism, i.e., one remains optimistic in spite of the “tragic triad, or  those aspects of human existence which may be circumscribed by: (1) pain; (2) guilt; and (3) death and that we should say 'yes' to life in spite of all that.
> We may also find meaning in life even when confronted with a hopeless situation, when facing a fate that cannot be changed. For what then matters is to bear witness to the uniquely human potential at its best, which is to transform a personal tragedy into a triumph, to turn one’s predicament into a human achievement. When we are no longer able to change a situation—just think of an incurable disease such as inoperable cancer—we are challenged to change ourselves. (p. 116).  
> To suffer unnecessarily is masochistic rather than heroic. 
> Success cannot be pursued but it is an end result that the unintended side-effect of one’s dedication to a cause greater than oneself or as the by-product of one’s surrender to a person other than oneself.
> “Unemployment neurosis” originated in a twofold erroneous identification: being jobless was equated with being useless, and being useless was equated with having a meaningless life.
> Depression, aggression, and addiction in young people are due to what is called in logotherapy “the existential vacuum,” a feeling of emptiness and meaninglessness.
> But even if each and every case of suicide had not been undertaken out of a feeling of meaninglessness, it may well be that an individual’s impulse to take his life would have been overcome had he been aware of some meaning and purpose worth living for.(p. 143).  

SOME CRITIQUE
Frankl poignantly mentions that despite all the inmates being subject to the harsh situations (food and sleep deprivation, hard-work labor, extreme cold, beatings, etc.) some died and some survived, and he ways that, many of those who died did so because they gave up on life and lose hope in getting alive out of the camps and resuming their lives after the war.

I love most of what Frankl says and his attitude towards life. However, we cannot say that Frankl survived just because he had a specific mindset, hopes of getting alive, finding his family and publishing the basics of Logotherapy included in this edition, which he had already started writing before being taken to the camp. First of all, he was an intellectual and  a psychiatrist, i.e. a person with a strong mind, mentally stable with enough intellectual harnesses to re-frame anything in his head to give it meaning. He certainly was an optimistic, like it's in his nature. Not everyone was so well equipped mentally and emotionally. What's more, there must have been other people who, like him, had hopes of surviving, seeing their families and doing something with their lives in the outside world, but they never made it because, I can only hypothesize, their physique and immune system, as well as their mental state weren't Frankl's.  

MIND
This edition published in 2008 by Rider, but digitally in 2013. Published in 2004 in Great Britain by Rider, an imprint of Ebury Publishing. A Random House Group company First published in German in 1946 under the title Ein Psycholog erlebt das Konzentrationslager Original English title was From Death-Camp to Existentialism.

True Love Reading Cards: Attract and Create the Love You Desire by Belinda Grace & Lori Banks

, 13 Nov 2021

Belinda Grace's oracle is a soulful exploration of romantic relationships that will be useful for singles or partnered people. The imagery draws on issues that affect and influence relationships for good or bad. Some of the imagery uses well-known world myths to illustrate couple dynamics and qualities of relating. This being the case, the cards can be used in counseling or therapeutic settings.
 
Lori Banks' artwork  is just my cup of tea: colorful symbolic paintings that are pregnant with meaning and very intuitive to use. However, what makes this decks so lovely to me is not just the cute artwork, is the quality of the guidebook and the texts that accompany eachc card.
 
FAB QUALITY
RockPool demonstrates, once more, that other Tarot publishing houses have much to learn on how to produce affordable good-quality decks.
> Beautiful keepsake box with magnetic clip.
> The quality of the booklet is amazing. Premium glossy paper, color illustrations, good-sized lettering.
> Flexible good quality glossy cards, easy to shuffle and handle. Despite the size, the deck is light and not bulky.
> Good value for money. 
 

ON THE FLIP SIDE
> The cards are a big too big for people with small hands.
> No ethnic or gender diversity.
> Three of the full body frontal images have wrong proportions between head and body, thus, the characters look a bit dwarfish: The Divine Masculine, Chivalry and the Sacred Woman. 

The Spirit Messages. Daily Guidance Oracle Deck by John Holland & Matt Manley

, 24 Apr 2021

John Holland is not only a gifted internationally-renowned medium, he's also the author of some of my more helpful card decks, as they're uncannily intuitive and divinatory. This card deck is very different from his more tarot-derived Psychic Tarot Oracle Deck  and The Psychic Tarot for the Heart Oracle Deck. I see this deck, despite being labelled as spiritual, more like a therapeutic psychological tool for guidance and self-growth.
 
 
THE ARTWORK 
Manley's work is, as he himself says, "a combination of oil on canvas paintings, pencil and ink drawings, paint textures, photos, direct scans, all layered and combined in Photoshop." Manley's imagery focuses on heads and torsos, gorgeous portraits with conceptual and spiritual elements added to them. The images are captivating, rich, intimate and colourful. I love that there is racial and gender diversity in this deck; it is refreshing because, lately, Hay House tends to produce decks that are overwhelmingly feminine.  

 
THE GOOD
> A deck that is good both for psychological and spiritual introspection, and it can be used in a a therapeutic or home setting. I think this goes well with Myss' Archetype Cards and Segal's Mystical Healing cards, among other decks. 
> The concepts depicted in the deck are, overall, quite original.
> Inspired colourful fine artwork with racial and gender diversity.
> Each card includes a summary of the meaning so you don't have to check the guidebook unless you really want.
> Good sturdy packing box.
> Good quality glossy cardboard. 


THE NOT SO GOOD 

> A bit heavy deck.  
> The cards tend to stick to each other and aren't comfortable to shuffle.  
> The presence of black characters is minimal.  
 > The back of the cards looks amateur Photoshop.
> Average guidebook printing and paper quality.  
> The packaging is overall boring re colour and cover image. It doesn't make justice to the fine artwork inside.  


 

Archetype Cards by Caroline Myss & Janice Fried

, 27 Mar 2021

 What a fab deck! This is mostly a self-knowledge tool based on the Jungian's concept of the archetypes and on Jungian psychotherapy, but it can be used for intuitive readings as well.
 
The deck is really good quality and it reflects Hay House old ways of doing things, which is the right way of doing things:, good quality cards that shuffle well, aren't too heavy or b
> Great quality printing.
> Beautiful vibrant card back.
> Perfect card size (not to big, not too small).
> Glossy flexible cardboard.
> The cards come alphabetically ordered, but they can be shuffled if you want to use them in readings or intuitive exercises.
 >  Good quality sturdy packing box.

 
THE BEAUTY OF THIS DECK
Some reviewers have stated that this is not a Tarot deck, and this is true. They've also stated that the deck cannot be used in readings, and that's incorrect. The Tarot has many archetypal figures, especially the major arcana, and many of them are also in this deck, sometimes called the same (the hermit, the fool, the queen, the king, the knight) and others not so clearly (the goddess, the warrior, the king, the mediator, the priest, the lover, the judge, the destroyer, etc.). 
> The deck has many different uses. 
  •  It can be used for self-knowledge, to get to know friends, family and partners, or just a therapeutic tool to allow the patient's disclosure. Questions you can ask these cards are, for example:
    • -- Which archetypes in the deck show who I was/I am/need to be?
    • -- Which archetype is dominant in me/a given person right now?
    • -- Which archetype would balance me/a given person?
    • -- Which personality traits does this person have?
    • -- Which characters do you identify with and why? 
    • -- Which characters would you like to be?  
    • -- Which sort of archetypes are my parents, siblings or closed family members? Is there is a common archetype among them?
  • You can use the cards as a task-card or summary of Myss' archetypes. 
  • The cards can also be used in Tarot readings to add extra layers of meaning. 
  •  If you want to stretch it further, you can use these cards as consultation tool to dive into your dream's characters.
> The deck has a balanced mix of masculine and feminine energies.
> Characters go from childhood to mature age. 
> Excellent first introduction to archetypes. 
> The deck has 6 blank cards to add your own personal archetypes.

 
DOWNSIDES
> Bulky, heavy, hard to shuffle deck.
> The guidebook's printing quality  is average.
> The meaning given to the cards in the booklet is good enough, but less that I was expecting from Myss, who's an expert in the field.
> The contrast between the lettering and the background is deficient in the yellow, mustard or ocher colored cards, and, as result, the text is difficult to read. The same can be said of the aquamarine colored cards.This is a design and/or printing flaw that limits my enjoyment of the deck, as I struggle to read some of the texts on the cards.  
> Lack of ethnic and racial diversity. 
> Deck is bulky, heavy and difficult to shuffle.
 

Mystical Healing Reading Cards by Inna Segal & Jack Baddeley

, 8 Feb 2021

Mystical Healing Card is a deluxe deck with an unique self-improvement and healing deck to help you face those inner obstacles that keep you stuck and prevent you from achieving your goals, experiencing a happier life and growing to your full potential.

GOOD THINGS
> Amazing artwork. I could spend hours wandering around the colors, the details and symbolism of the cards. They have an almost sacred feeling to them, but they are also very oneiric. Jake Baddeley's images have an ancient patina, colors and symbolism that seems to take you into an old Medieval church where many candles had been on and created that golden darkish coating. The imagery reminds me of the Byzantine Medieval mosaics, the Renaissance painters, Venice Carnival and modern surrealism. For whatever reason, Da Vinci's notebook is what comes to mind when looking at the cards back.
> Very well-thought healing deck. I think this deck  would be a great tool in psychotherapy.
For whatever reason, I see this deck connected to another healing or self-improvement deck as it is The Four Agreements Deck.
> I really connect with this deck at a deep level as it eplies to my queries with precision and give real good advice. Two examples. I asked what can I do to heal my romantic relationships and the card that popped up was "Unlock your Heart". I asked what should I be focusing right now and the card that popped up was "Focus on Higher Truths". How on point are those answers?!
> Esoteric in conception, therefore, something unique.
 
NOT SO GOOD
> Mismatch between the images and the meaning attributed to them. That affects most cards. There is an obvious connection for the artist, and that's fine, but it is not for most readers. To me, when I look to most images and I look at the meaning of them, it's like, this is a pastiche, something that you put together but do not belong together.
> The imagery has, overall, a dark feeling to it. A shadow feeling, if you want. 
> It could be too esoteric and counterintuitive for many people.
 
 THE DECK
> Great quality packaging.
> Full-color excellent-quality guidebook.
> Flexible good quality glossy cards, easy to shuffle and handle. 
> Light deck.