Showing posts with label Synchronicity. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Synchronicity. Show all posts

Sidewalk Oracles: Playing with Signs, Symbols, and Synchronicity in Everyday Life by Robert Moss (2015)

, 21 Apr 2018

Sidewalk oracles are simple and fun ways of gathering intuitive information to help you navigate life by posing a question to the Universe to get guidance on any matter or let the Universe get you some items of information about matters that concern you.

Moss is a storyteller, a wonderful speaker, and has the virtue of mixing entertainment with academic and practical knowledge through his personal journey as historian, journalist and shamanistic dream-work master. His style is unique, and mixes chit-chatty sort of writing when he narrates episodes of synchronicity, with an erudite knowledge of folk culture and mythology and more serious writing when deals with those.  Personally, I like the way Moss uses antiquity Greek-derived words to describe intuition and divination; it's something unique to him, and his chosen semantic field gives an elegant varnish of luxury antique to his writing.

Synchronicity is something difficult to explain if you haven't had a direct experience of it. In this book, Moss is able to define and describe synchronicity in a way that is easy to understand by lay readers, so they get to know how synchronicity manifests and how it feels. Moss calls synchronicity kairomancy,  making magic by seizing special synchronistic moments, and includes any form of divination you might want to use.

Moss provides readers with a historically sound and beautiful contextualisation of synchronicity, not as something 'invented' by Jung, but as a concept that is intrinsically linked to very ancient cultural beliefs from around the world. Thus, "A wall around Jung Tower" is a voyage to the China of the Tao and the Book of Changes (I-Ching), to Australia and the Aborigines' dream culture, to the Native Americans cultures, and to the Nordic realms of the Wyrd.

Section three contains the twelve 'rules' of kairomancy: 1/ You attract what you believe, feel or think. 2/ Oracles speak best when you have a query or worry in your mind but aren't looking for anything specifically or focusing on it intensely. 3/  The law of spiritual gravitation or attraction. 4/ We live in a conscious universe where everything is alive, connected and spirit. 5/ Pay attention to recurrent themes, symbols, images and events that keep popping up in your life. 6/ Coincidence multiplies when we are travelling. 7/ For every setback there is an opportunity, sometimes the breakdown comes before the breakthrough. 8/ Called or not, the 'gods' are always present. 9/ Our paths constantly interweave with those of numberless possible parallel selves and the spirits of the land. 10/ Marry your field, i.e. your creative force, whatever that might be. 11/ Dance with the trickster, that power that open doors in life when we need to change and recover our sense of humour to counterbalance any over-controlling ego-driven agenda. 12/ The way will show the way. There is also one oath for the kairomancer: being open to new experiences; available to set aside and step out of boxes; being thankful for secret-hand shakes and surprises; and being ready to honour our special moments by taking appropriate action 

Section four is the core of the book, seventeen side-walk oracles, which can be summarised as follows:
1- Play Sidewalk Tarot. Pose a question on which you need  guidance, chose a frame time, the number of cards you want to get or let the Universe decide on how many, and see what pops up. One card is enough, though. Anything that enters our field of perception any of our senses is considered a card in play. It might be a recurrent sound, smell, logo, dream, or event. 
2- Walk a dream. Take the images of any dream significant to you and see what happens in hour awaken life that comments, highlights, or brings meaning to the symbols or stories from your dream.
3-Keep a journal, totally secret, in which you note your synchronicities, odd happenings, symbols unique to you, dreams, serial events, patterned findings or events, items of personal superstition, and so on. You'll be able to use it as your personal oracle deck and as a repository of information to consult with.
4- Listen to the first sound that comes from silence or the shapeless noise in a street, and see what they tell you.
5- Bibliomancy -- open any given book, at random, and blindly put your finger on a line in the page, and see what that line or paragraph says and how it relates to your query or your life.
6- Play with shelf elves, i.e. pick up those books that appear around you, fall on you, you stumble upon, and notice those that disappear, and see whether the title or the book itself help you with your queries. 
7- Notice your chance encounters, see how your energy relates to that of those people, and if something shifts in you when you have them close.
8- Notice your slips of tongue, screw-ups, typos, and memory lapses and see what they are trying to tell you.
9- Notice which song is playing in your head or you are singing over and over, and how it makes you feel, what it says about your mood and life. Change it consciously if it is not helping you. 
10- Notice any déjâ vu moments, already dreamed moments and already lived moments, record them and see what followed each of those moments.
11- Imagine that your feelings, worries and troubles are a real person knocking at your door, open it, and establish communication wit them and decide whether you let them in, out or send it elsewhere, what they are trying to tell you, what you want to tell them, and so on. 
12- Notice a situation you have already been in life before and apply what you learned from the past to avoid making the same mistake.
13- Be aware of which superstitions or omens you believe in personally and don't disregard them. When they reoccur, note them down and see what happens after the event. 
14- Listen to your body (your gut feeling, changes in your energy), notice and record any relevant episode that follows. Develop your own code of positive and negative body signals.
15- Participate in a dreamwork circle to share your dreams and get feedback on them, so other people can help you decode those symbols or dream fragments that aren't clear to you. You can play the game with anything, like some serial events, weird happenings, a synchronicity, and so on.
16- Create a card deck with synchronicities, dream fragments, odd events, funny stories, coincidences, the song line that is in your head. Then shuffle the cards and ask the oracle for guidance. You can play it in group or individually and apply similar rules to those used in dream circles.  
17- Write a message or letter to a person close to you whom you haven't seen in a while and want to talk (it is OK if is not a close person, too) do not send it, and see if the person contacts you, come across you, and gets the message in your letter.  

THE DOWNSIDES
There is a tendency amongst New Age writers to trivialise synchronicity, so readers get that this is a sort of 'small world' coincidence, nothing remarkable to write about. I believe that many of the examples that Moss gives in this book help readers to see what synchronicity really is. However, at times the examples he uses are also so generic and trivial.

I found sections five and six enjoyable but totally unnecessary, I would rather have a short and sweet book than one with too many examples.  "On Other Planes" is a collection of personal examples of synchronicity while flying. They are really great for a live event, for a blog or newsletter, for a book that already has many examples before getting here, not so much. The same can be said of section six, with endless examples of the fox as archetype of the trickster, sometimes not clearly related to sidewalk-oracling at all, at least to me.

Just a note. Masaru Emoto experiments on water, which Moss mentions in the book, were heavily criticised by the scientific community, so ignoring what the flaws of the experiment were, it is just biased writing.  

IN SHORT
Overall, this is a short enjoyable book, well structured and very practical, with a superb introduction on synchronicity and personal stories galore, perhaps too many. 

Dream Gates by Robert Moss (2006)

, 5 Oct 2014

I've listened to Dream Gates in Audible format as the book is not available in Kindle format and I rarely buy hard copy books or CD books.

The book is very much Moss' Conscious Dreaming book regarding the information he provides about dream recording, dream interpretation, dream re-entry, dream anecdotes and stories, and even the quotes he mentions. Dreams about the future, healing dreams, shamanistic dreams, dreams about the deceased and spiritual entities, counseling dreams. Anything and everything about the world of dreams is in this book. There are plenty of real dreams examples mentioned as an example, all of them interesting and surprising, and they come from Moss' own oneiric world and from his circle of friends and workshops participants. Also part of his dreamwork approach is the world of synchronicity and active imagination, and they are also considered in the book.

The advantage of this book with regards to Conscious Dreaming, to me, is that here Moss devotes time to guide practical exercises, the ones with drumming including, so you will be able to put into practice his advice, even if you are alone at home and you don't have a drum. Moss will be your master of ceremonies.

Robert Moss is a great narrator. Unlike other audio books, Dream Gates is not only informative, it is also entertaining. Moss knows how to read, how to speak to the public, how to give his voice the correct inflection so we listen to something that sounds natural, engaging, lively, energetic, but well structured in content. You won't get bored or sleepy. It feels like having the author giving a speech in your house more than a read book.

I miss in the Audible book that the Chapters are not titled, just numbered. It would have been
extremely handy have them titled!

The price of the Audible book is great. Great value for money and good quality sound. The book was published long ago, but it is terrific for dreamwork and so very modern despite the pass of time.

Three Only Things by Robert Moss (2008)

A good simplified version of Moss' Conscious Dreaming,  this book focuses on dreamwork, synchronicity (or mindful coincidence) and Active Imagination (Visualization).

Moss offers plenty of examples coming from his own oniric world and from other people's dreams, and plenty of historical anecdotes and curious information about the transforming power of dreams, synchronicity and imagination in people's lives.

I especially liked his how-to step by step of dream interpretation, asking the world for a an answer on a pressing query you need advice on, dream re-entry, oracle playing, and other practical techniques to work with active/creative imagination, all of them very simply explained and entertaining. I also loved his comments on the Muslim dream culture and on how to treat children when they mention a dream.

The book reads with gusto, it is entertaining, easy to follow and well organized. If you have read Moss' Conscious Dreaming or other of his older books, this book will disappoint you, as he repeats many of the things he said there. However, if this is the first book you read by Moss, you will enjoy it and probably buy some others. This is a book perfect for beginners in dreamwork. The bibliography is comprehensive and up to date.

The book revolves about the following statements:
1/ The 9 Powers of Dreaming
We solve problems in our sleep. - Dreams coach us for future challenges and opportunities. - Dreams hold up a magic mirror to our actions and behavior. - Dreams show us what we need to do to stay well. - Dreams are a secret laboratory. - Dreams are a creative studio. - Dreams help us to mend our divided selves. - Dreaming is a key to better relationships. - Dreams recall us to our larger purpose

2/ The 9 Rules of Coincidence
There are things that like to happen together - Thoughts are actions and produce effects
Coincidence multiplies when we are in motion - Life rhymes. - The world is a forest of symbols. - Every setback offers an opportunity. - To find our way, we may need to get lost. - Look for the hidden hand. - The passions of the soul work magic.

3/ The 7 Open Secrets of Imagination
By picturing our blocks, we can move beyond them. - The body believes in images. - If we can see our destination, we are better than halfway there. - The Big Story is hunting us. -  There is a place of imagination, and it is entirely real. - We can grow a vision for someone in need of a vision. - The stronger the imagination, the less imaginary the results.

On the downside, this book is severely affected by linking words that should be separated, as if the electronic conversion of the book had eliminated some of the necessary spacing. And this is a bother for the reader. This problem could be easily fixed in the ebook, and I hope it is.


Inner Work by Robert A. Johnson (2009)

This is one of the best books on dreamwork I have ever read, and I have read a few. The book is not only informative but also well structured, well written, and very didactic and engaging. This book is based on Jungian Psychology and, therefore, it does discuss a a few things about the matter, but does not enter in the different schools of dream interpretation. If you are into Jungian psychoanalysis this book is for you.

The book gives  tools to approach and interpret our own dreams and to approach and develop visualization (Creative Imagination, also called active imagination) with ease and depth.

This is a classic by Robert A. Johnson that really lived to my expectations. I have it on my Kindle, underlined, and I consult and use it often.

True Balance: A Common Sense Guide to Renewing Your Spirit by Sonia Choquette (2012))

True Balance is a beautiful book to use as a first approach for beginners to the Chakra system. The chakras are seven energy points that contribute to our physical, mental, emotional and spiritual well-being.

Choquette's language is very clear, direct and chatty. Like in other of her books, she uses her own life and her customers' experiences to give examples and illustrate her points. The book has an inquisitive but playful tone, and it will certainly help you improve your life even if you don't believe in the existence of chakras. That is a lot to say.

Each Chapter is devoted to the discussion at length of each chakra: its function, the qualities it relates to, signs that the chakra is balanced, the symptoms of any imbalance (and different degrees of it). Choquette also poses the reader many questions to self-evaluate oneself and determine whether our chakra is in a good shape or not. She also gives many tips, exercises and practices to balance each individual chakras no matter its state.

The book is very practical, more energetic than spiritual, and certainly less religious than others by Choquette (the religious part is mostly devoted to the chapter on the Crown Chakra. Choquette poses many questions for thought to improve your self-knowledge and promote your physical and inner growth, and the correction of any imbalance.

The main thing your will learn is that being human is also being imperfect, that nobody but a few humans on the planet are completely balanced, and that balance is something you work on every day. Accepting our flaws without judgement, and working on your energy system will create a more fulfilling life and let us flow.

Trust your Vibes by Sonia Choquette (2005)


Trust your Vibes is a wonderful uplifting book more appropriate to open the channels to your intuition, so you can hear it louder and better, than to develop your intuition.

Choquette's writing is very direct, cheery and entertaining, and her personal and client's examples are very illustrative.

The book will add to your life even if you aren't an intuitive person or have any psychic interest. It is just good advice for happy living. Many of the exercises and questions for thought she poses are terrific and a good tool to develop your self-knowledge.

Choquette uses principles of the law of attraction and positive thinking in her approach to life mixed with some Eastern Philosophy teachings, but her approach is heavily religious and Christian. If you aren't religious or Christian, you might not connect with some of the things she says. At times, Choquette opposes intellect and intuition, but I find that puzzling because one can be highly intellectual and very intuitive at the same time without opposition. I agree that both things can create conflict sometimes, but I don't think that you need to erase your intellect, especially if you have it, to be a good intuitive.

I have enjoyed the book a lot, so much so that I have bought another one by her. However, I do prefer Laura Day's books on intuitive development because she offers plenty of practical exercises and advice on how to develop you intuition, does not oppose intellect and intuition at all, and is not religiously biased