First Things First by by Stephen R. Covey, A. Roger Merrill & Rebecca R. Merrill (1996)

, 5 Oct 2014


This review is about the audio-book version of First Things First, which is a little over 1 hour long, narrated by the author himself. This is a perfect book to listen while commuting, travelling or just doing your daily chores. Covey's reading is energetic, engaging, well paced and really clear to understand and absorb. This is a perfect companion to the book, but it is an abridged version, so be aware of that.

Despite its age, First Things First Book reminds the reader of important things that will make your work and personal life better and more successful. This success is not based on flashy things but on getting balance in your life. The pillars of Covey's philosophy are the 4 Ls: Living (taking care of your basic needs), Loving (taking care of your human relationships), learning (learning and improving yourself) and legacy (your contribution to Society and our fellow humans). Other Covey's nuggets of wisdom to improve your productivity and performance are:
= Leadership over management
= compass over timing
= Importancy over urgency
= Weekly tasking and planning over daily
= Goal Setting

Virtues that are embedded in this system are:
+ Flexibility
+ Discipline
+ Integrity
+ Meaning seeking
+ Synergy
+ Having a Vision of Future
+ Constant learning, evaluation and readjustments if necessary

What I love about the book is that this is a system to improve your life as a whole, not just your business or work performance. The audio-book goes right to the point. There are some examples taken from real life used to illustrate Covey's points, but these are relevant and not too many or bulky in any way.


Dream Gates by Robert Moss (2006)

I've listened to Dream Gates in Audible format as the book is not available in Kindle format and I rarely buy hard copy books or CD books.

The book is very much Moss' Conscious Dreaming book regarding the information he provides about dream recording, dream interpretation, dream re-entry, dream anecdotes and stories, and even the quotes he mentions. Dreams about the future, healing dreams, shamanistic dreams, dreams about the deceased and spiritual entities, counseling dreams. Anything and everything about the world of dreams is in this book. There are plenty of real dreams examples mentioned as an example, all of them interesting and surprising, and they come from Moss' own oneiric world and from his circle of friends and workshops participants. Also part of his dreamwork approach is the world of synchronicity and active imagination, and they are also considered in the book.

The advantage of this book with regards to Conscious Dreaming, to me, is that here Moss devotes time to guide practical exercises, the ones with drumming including, so you will be able to put into practice his advice, even if you are alone at home and you don't have a drum. Moss will be your master of ceremonies.

Robert Moss is a great narrator. Unlike other audio books, Dream Gates is not only informative, it is also entertaining. Moss knows how to read, how to speak to the public, how to give his voice the correct inflection so we listen to something that sounds natural, engaging, lively, energetic, but well structured in content. You won't get bored or sleepy. It feels like having the author giving a speech in your house more than a read book.

I miss in the Audible book that the Chapters are not titled, just numbered. It would have been
extremely handy have them titled!

The price of the Audible book is great. Great value for money and good quality sound. The book was published long ago, but it is terrific for dreamwork and so very modern despite the pass of time.

Three Only Things by Robert Moss (2008)

A good simplified version of Moss' Conscious Dreaming,  this book focuses on dreamwork, synchronicity (or mindful coincidence) and Active Imagination (Visualization).

Moss offers plenty of examples coming from his own oniric world and from other people's dreams, and plenty of historical anecdotes and curious information about the transforming power of dreams, synchronicity and imagination in people's lives.

I especially liked his how-to step by step of dream interpretation, asking the world for a an answer on a pressing query you need advice on, dream re-entry, oracle playing, and other practical techniques to work with active/creative imagination, all of them very simply explained and entertaining. I also loved his comments on the Muslim dream culture and on how to treat children when they mention a dream.

The book reads with gusto, it is entertaining, easy to follow and well organized. If you have read Moss' Conscious Dreaming or other of his older books, this book will disappoint you, as he repeats many of the things he said there. However, if this is the first book you read by Moss, you will enjoy it and probably buy some others. This is a book perfect for beginners in dreamwork. The bibliography is comprehensive and up to date.

The book revolves about the following statements:
1/ The 9 Powers of Dreaming
We solve problems in our sleep. - Dreams coach us for future challenges and opportunities. - Dreams hold up a magic mirror to our actions and behavior. - Dreams show us what we need to do to stay well. - Dreams are a secret laboratory. - Dreams are a creative studio. - Dreams help us to mend our divided selves. - Dreaming is a key to better relationships. - Dreams recall us to our larger purpose

2/ The 9 Rules of Coincidence
There are things that like to happen together - Thoughts are actions and produce effects
Coincidence multiplies when we are in motion - Life rhymes. - The world is a forest of symbols. - Every setback offers an opportunity. - To find our way, we may need to get lost. - Look for the hidden hand. - The passions of the soul work magic.

3/ The 7 Open Secrets of Imagination
By picturing our blocks, we can move beyond them. - The body believes in images. - If we can see our destination, we are better than halfway there. - The Big Story is hunting us. -  There is a place of imagination, and it is entirely real. - We can grow a vision for someone in need of a vision. - The stronger the imagination, the less imaginary the results.

On the downside, this book is severely affected by linking words that should be separated, as if the electronic conversion of the book had eliminated some of the necessary spacing. And this is a bother for the reader. This problem could be easily fixed in the ebook, and I hope it is.


Dream Exploration: A New Approach by Robert P. Gongloff (2006)

Don't judge a book by its cover. This is a terrific book, very practical and very profound, on how to tackle the always fascinating task of finding the meaning of your dreams and doing something with the advice embedded in them. Although the author does not deny the importance of symbol interpretation, this book focuses on theme exploration.

The book is like a breath of fresh air for people with vivid dreams, like me, with many symbols in them. It can take you hours to go just through all of them, and there is no warranty that anything will click for you or that you will have an aha moment. Focusing on themes, instead, makes the task more manageable. Moreover, the system can be used to complement other approaches to dream interpretation. I love the fact that the author relies on this book not only on his own approach on dream interpretation, which is based in his long experience in dream interpretation and with dream groups, but also on the works of several dream experts that have different takings on the matter.

The system is easy to learn, memorize and put into practice, Follow the TTAQ technique = Title, Theme, Affect (emotions/feelings), Question (that the dream is asking you). The author tells you the how to find the theme of you dream, how to relate it to the 12-box related Theme Matrix, and to use it to dig in in the meaning of your dreams and the message they are sending to your conscious mind. The matrix is not only used to find your theme, but to help you to make questions about the theme, and how they relate to different stages in life. It takes a while to get used to get the theme of your dream right, but once you get there, the Matrix will be very helpful.

I also loved the part of honoring your dream using the matrix, as well as the appendix on the symbolism of number Twelve, which is fascinating

I've read the book in my Kindle, and the Matrix tables are impossible to read without a magnifying glass, which is a pain especially for people with poor sight, as the tables cannot be resized or the font increased. Therefore, they are useless. I have also Kindle in my PC, and I've tried to copy and paste the tables to print them and have them at hand, but Kindle doesn't allow you to do that. So this is a big bummer!

Re the downsides of the book, well, the cover is just dreadful, boring and doesn't make any favor to the book. Secondly, some of the progressive examples are too long, and I would shorten them, leaving just the headings of the previous parts and developing the part explained. I would try to fix the tables problem for Kindle, perhaps have them developed in plain text in another appendix.

This is the sort of book that you would want to have in hard copy, because it is quite cheap and also quite useful, and you will underline it and have it as a manual at hand. I have read a few books on dream Interpretation, and this is one of my favourite ones. That is a lot to say!

The Beginner's Guide to Dream Interpretation by Clarissa Pinkola Estes (2003)

This review is for the audible version of the book.

The author offers a simple, effective and enjoyable Jungian psychoanalytical approach to dream interpretation, written (and told) in a very simple terms, straightforward, perfect for beginners.

You will learn some techniques to recall your dreams and to stop your nightmares, a basic approach to interpreting your own dreams, you will learn several varieties of extraordinary dreams you can have in your life time, and 13 universal recurrent dreams and their meaning.

The audible book lasts about 1.15 hours. The author is also the narrator of the book, and she has a very mellow voice, so she will make you sleep in a second :O. Seriously, a bit of more energy in the narration, would have made the book much more enjoyable, and it is especially important with audible books.

Very enjoyable and certainly one book I would recommend to friends to start with dreamwork.

The Voice of Knowledge: A Practical Guide to Inner Peace (A Toltec Wisdom Book) by Janet Mills and Don Miguel Ruiz (2011)

This is a good companion to Ruiz's Four Agreements, and digs further into the Toltec philosophy of life and their idea of spiritual awakening form our dreaming life - a life based on false perceptions and tons of lies.

The book basically calls for you being present, for becoming attuned to your own "being" and feelings not to your mind and thoughts. Ruiz advocates for forgetting all the negative chatter that is driving our lives, and to focus more on our hearts and feelings and less in our head and thoughts.

The basic idea of the book is that our mind is full of lies about who we are, we are not, and about who other people are. Our mind is biased by our social and cultural background, too. Our lies makes us judge ourselves and others, and create stories that are mere fantasies affecting our lives... for the worst. If we accept that we can only access our on perception and we are the creators of our own story and that everybody does the same, we can find a better way of not judging, or seeing the divine in everybody, and not getting triggered by somebody else lies and stories.

In this book, Don Miguel Ruiz mentions many of his personal experiences in his transformation from surgeon/doctor to Toltec master, not just somebody preaching a way of living or philosophy.

I agree with some of the other reviewers on the fact that the book is a bit loopy and that it should be more concise. In fact, the book can be easily summarized and re-read by going directly to the end of each chapter, to the section "Points to Ponder", where the gist of each chapter is succinctly and clearly presented minus the over-talking.

This is a great book that will bring lots of peace to your mind.


Owning Your Own Shadow: Understanding the Dark Side of the Psyche by Robert A. Johnson (2013)

I am a fan of Robert A. Johnson's work and writing, but this book feels like unfinished stuff, a hurried work, and lacks the practicality, depth, and polish of other of his books. This is not a book either, is more a booklet or essay.

The booklet feels a bit lousy and way below Johnson's talent and knowledge and I would read this book once you get a better idea what the concept of Jungian shadow is from other book. Then, this book will make sense and will be a nice addition.
Johnson succeeds at showing what a group shadow is, but he does not succeed at defining the shadow at a personal level. No step by step process to help you to uncover you shadow/s. His definitions are not even that clear. He recommends you, once you discover your shadow/s, to do a ritual to incorporate it into your psyche, but he doesn't provide much information on this either.


Inner Work by Robert A. Johnson (2009)

This is one of the best books on dreamwork I have ever read, and I have read a few. The book is not only informative but also well structured, well written, and very didactic and engaging. This book is based on Jungian Psychology and, therefore, it does discuss a a few things about the matter, but does not enter in the different schools of dream interpretation. If you are into Jungian psychoanalysis this book is for you.

The book gives  tools to approach and interpret our own dreams and to approach and develop visualization (Creative Imagination, also called active imagination) with ease and depth.

This is a classic by Robert A. Johnson that really lived to my expectations. I have it on my Kindle, underlined, and I consult and use it often.

5 Steps to Decode Your Dreams: A Fast, Effective Way to Discover the Meaning of Your Dreams by Gillian Holloway (2011)


If you are into dream interpretation and want to start with simple steps to decode your dreams, this is your book. It offers sound advice on who to interpret your dreams, which elements you should pay attention to, how to pose questions to your dreams, techniques to remember your dreams or make questions to your unconscious, and even advice on how to organize a dream workshop group.

The book is written in a very simple language, very entertaining, easy to read and understand, and truly helpful to explain your dreams to yourself or to your friends and family. It contains many examples of dreams and how to apply the techniques the author explains.

Some of the advice and steps give for dream interpretation are:
1/ Record your dreams using the present tense and simple language, mentioning your feelings in the dream.
2/ Underline or note action metaphors, exaggerated feelings and symbols.
3/ Generate a description asking what does this remind you in your waking life.

The five step method consists of:
1/ Check your first impression of the dream
2/ Note the action metaphors the dream has.
3/ Notice your feelings during the dream
4/ Notice the symbols, including characters and setting
5/ Look for the gift within the dream

The major flaws of the book are the chapter on symbols, which is quite simple and schematic, and leaves the reader wanting for more in a subject that needs of more depth and length, and the chapter on how to make a dream journal, which contains very obvious information.

Great for beginners.



True Balance: A Common Sense Guide to Renewing Your Spirit by Sonia Choquette (2012))

True Balance is a beautiful book to use as a first approach for beginners to the Chakra system. The chakras are seven energy points that contribute to our physical, mental, emotional and spiritual well-being.

Choquette's language is very clear, direct and chatty. Like in other of her books, she uses her own life and her customers' experiences to give examples and illustrate her points. The book has an inquisitive but playful tone, and it will certainly help you improve your life even if you don't believe in the existence of chakras. That is a lot to say.

Each Chapter is devoted to the discussion at length of each chakra: its function, the qualities it relates to, signs that the chakra is balanced, the symptoms of any imbalance (and different degrees of it). Choquette also poses the reader many questions to self-evaluate oneself and determine whether our chakra is in a good shape or not. She also gives many tips, exercises and practices to balance each individual chakras no matter its state.

The book is very practical, more energetic than spiritual, and certainly less religious than others by Choquette (the religious part is mostly devoted to the chapter on the Crown Chakra. Choquette poses many questions for thought to improve your self-knowledge and promote your physical and inner growth, and the correction of any imbalance.

The main thing your will learn is that being human is also being imperfect, that nobody but a few humans on the planet are completely balanced, and that balance is something you work on every day. Accepting our flaws without judgement, and working on your energy system will create a more fulfilling life and let us flow.